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Either way, sex dolls aren't human beings and pedophiles tend to like children because they can exert control over them. Sex dolls are similar to porn in the way they don't provide a sense of control(which pedophiles crave) so in no way will it be possible to compare to the real thing. And in fact legalization of child sex dolls will actually encourage pedophiles which is not a good thing. Not to mention it provides acceptance of pedophiles not in the way that it's a mental illness but rather a completely normal thing. The brain of a pedophile is no different than someone with moderate to severe schizophrenia. I find it interesting that you'd actually argue this considering that I figured you were intelligent. However, I don't think you see the bigger picture here. You can never fight mental illness by encouraging a mental illness to develop(which child sex dolls will do). Not to mention with child sex dolls it's highly likely that society will normalize pedophilia. A similar tactic was used for trans people (accepting that there are other genders). Not to mention with the rise of people accepting pedophilia as a sexuality ("pedosexuality")  the use of child sex dolls will only be used as ammunition by said people
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i hear you on these points. i think they are understandable, and all i want to do is make sure people are clear on the science, rather than wandering around the issue without the facts. since i've done a good deal of research on this topic, i want to clear up some of the scientific facts on this.
you say that pedophiles like children because they can exert control over them. i dont know what the ostensible basis of this claim is (please back it up if you want to clear this up for me), but what i can tell you is that pedophiles like children because they have connections in the brain between the stimulus of a child and the response of sexual arousal (instead of the response of caring, protection, etc that non-pedophiles have).
the facts on the brains of pedophiles and schizophrenics are also a little more of a gray area than that. the brains of a pedophile and a schizophrenic both exhibit cerebral white matter deficiencies, but a schizophrenic brain exhibits these abnormalities in the frontotemporal region (source) and pedophiles in the temporal and parietal lobes (source). so these are different. but it's true that the bodies, non-right-hanednesses, and IQs of pedophiles and schizophrenics are similar. both tend towards being a couple centimeters shorter than avg, less likely to be right handed, and a few IQ points lower (source on pedos 1 2, source on schizos 1 2 3).
i'm only making the argument on the basis of all this evidence i'm citing, but if you want to say that's not intelligent, you're gonna have to show me what is.

on the matter of treatment and normalization, i
as a final point about pedophilia as a sexuality, this is another point that science and science only can speak to. and the scientific consensus in the field is, again, that pedophilia is just like a sexual orientation (and this is observed with all kinds of paraphilias; they are known as exclusive paraphilias). for the science behind this, i refer you to a paper by another leading expert on pedophilia, Michael Seto of Ottowa, which is in full at that link.

now that you're cleared up on the science and the facts pertinent to this discussion, what do you think?
I'm one of those whom liken it to addiction. Whilst scientific research is divided between "addiction" and "sexual orientation" I lean more towards the addiction side as brain scans show. This article might be a little interesting to you: https://www.thedailybeast.com/what-science-reveals-about-pedophilia https://www.google.com/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2010/05/10/inside-the-mind-of-a-pedophile/amp/
This is also an interesting article but I don't agree with every point it makes https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2017.00645/full
yeah ive seen that shit about paraphilias being on the OC spectrum. the neurological evidence is preliminary really, and ive read about that before and the other leading point of evidence is that paraphilias have been reduced somewhat by treatment for OC spectrum, particularly with SSRIs. but then again SSRIs are known to decrease sex drive, and they also have a lot of other effects, and the evidence that they were helpful was only for a few cases , and wasnt always effective. so it's a very weak argument. either way, i dont really think it's relevant to the argument about sex dolls at all. if it is an addiction, that doesnt mean that trying to provide a coping mechanism will make them lose control.
Anyway, there's just as much evidence of pedophiles being on the oc spectrum as there is of them not. Either way, I don't believe that by using child sex bots that it'll solve the issue as whilst the sex bots can make noises and other noises it does nothing to curve the lust for actual children because the bots aren't up to the level of human iq, and eq. Pedophiles tend to be highly imaginative but I don't think even their imagination whilst also aided by sounds or reactions can ever match the real thing. In fact, I would actually go as far to say they'd have the same reaction to child pornography as they would to a child sex bot. Now, if society was advanced by another 100 or so years it's possible bots could have the iq and eq of real human beings. Right now, I believe it's just wishful thinking of yours and I also don't believe it'll ever be realized. I'm not someone whom believes it's possible to fight lust with lust or in my opinion addiction with addiction.
You said you want to normalize pedophilia anyways, remember?
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Depends what you mean by normalise. I think pedophiles should be allowed to function in society like anyone else, with reasonable restrictions if necessary, and those with pedophilic disorder need to have access to scientifically based treatment and not have to fear losing everything in their lives. This all has to start with an education campaign. 
I’ll agree with you that they should have access to psychiatric help without fear of being exposed, but there’s no reason why pedophilia should be accepted by the public as a normal part of society. That would have the effect of “normalizing” pedophilia, which would have undesirable consequences. If a pedophile feels confident that he won’t touch children, then there’s no reason for him to tell anyone about his disorder. Under that condition, I don’t see why it would be appropriate for anyone other than his doctor to know about his disorder. But if he doesn’t think that he can control himself, then he should turn himself in to the authorities. Either way, I don’t see any reason why anyone other than his doctor and the authorities should know about it. I’m essentially arguing that pedophiles should stay in the closet. It can be argued that homosexuals should be open about their sexuality, because nobody is threatened by it, and homosexuals can have consensual, meaningful relationships. No such argument can be made for pedophiles, which is why I don’t see any reason why anyone needs to know that someone is a pedophile.
i think its kinda stupid to argue that people shouldnt be talking about who they are and that they should keep it a secret. i think that's an idiotic world and it would be depressing and shitty to live in. obviously people share things about themselves in this world and thats human nature so you should probably go shit your pants.

also youre gonna have to give me a scientific argument about why pedophilia being viewed analogously to homosexuality (not in terms of acquiring relationships, but as something that happens to some people through no fault of their own and is an essential part of who they are) would have undesireable consequences because im not convinced
“Who they are” is very loaded language. They are sick people, with a severe mental disorder that can only cause harm and misery to others. And you still haven’t given me any reason why anyone other than a pedo’s doctor has any business knowing about his paraphilia. As I said, nothing productive or beneficial either to the pedophile himself or to society as a whole can come out of a sexual urge to molest children. So I don’t see any reason why society needs to know about it.